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by Lilith
Tue May 21, 2019 12:31 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Kitty's cat burglar!
Replies: 5
Views: 980

Re: Kitty's cat burglar!

Lol - beware - what ginger tom may be saying is: 'Room for one more? Where's the night porter?'

Believe me I know these guys. And word gets round ...

So glad to hear the girl's so much better :D
by Lilith
Sun May 19, 2019 3:46 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Kitty back to vets
Replies: 15
Views: 1893

Re: Kitty back to vets

Great news - I was worried, but it did occur to me that perhaps you had technological problems; phones and things always escape when they're wanted, grrr.

Hope the girl is over the worst now, big fusses to her :D
by Lilith
Sun May 19, 2019 11:38 am
Forum: Health and Behaviour Queries, Help and Advice
Topic: Hyperthyroid with my cat
Replies: 5
Views: 1456

Re: Hyperthyroid with my cat

Hi and welcome. I'm sorry to hear about your cat. Why were two operations needed? Did the thyroid grow back? I confess I'm not an expert as I was lucky enough to be able to get my cat, Mouse, to a local centre where they administer the 'miracle cure' - radio-iodine treatment, which has proved a grea...
by Lilith
Sun May 19, 2019 11:21 am
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Some thoughts on letting go.
Replies: 27
Views: 5929

Re: Some thoughts on letting go.

They catch you unawares don't they? In a way they live again on this plane in those split seconds but it's hell when the realisation sinks in. This is a weepy song by the way - Don Maclean's 'Empty Chairs', so don't click on the link unless you can stand it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jtrIc8vq7...
by Lilith
Sun May 19, 2019 2:01 am
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Should I give in ?
Replies: 19
Views: 2442

Re: Should I give in ?

Ouch again! There is a book by Mike Tomkies: 'Liane, Cat From the Wild' which describes how he lived with a young Scottish wildcat; it's a good read, apart from his old-fashioned methods of housetraining (my copy has rude comments written all over it.) However Mike got his comeuppance. Liane liked t...
by Lilith
Sat May 18, 2019 9:31 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Should I give in ?
Replies: 19
Views: 2442

Re: Should I give in ?

Ohhhhh OUCH!

About 5 years ago I too had an op - there was I with my stomach unzipped like a pair of jeans and freshly stitched, and Molly did the same, jumped on it - OWWWW!!!

So I can commiserate 100%!

I'm glad the foil finally dissuaded her, naughty girl :)
by Lilith
Sat May 18, 2019 9:13 am
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Kitty back to vets
Replies: 15
Views: 1893

Re: Kitty back to vets

Oh no, just when she was doing so well. :( This might be a rather extreme thing to say, but I'd be inclined to remove the onesie if she's got so obsessed about it. If you feel confident about doing this of course. Her stitches - or is the incision glued? - will be healing well by now and they can al...
by Lilith
Fri May 17, 2019 11:55 am
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Mia - Chapter 3
Replies: 81
Views: 19405

Re: Mia - Chapter 3

That's typical - the toughest cat in the bunch is often the coward of the county when it comes down to it. In the 70s one of my moggies had a litter (smacks own wrist) and I had a very fierce black cat, Sulah, who was cornered by a four week old kitten ... Kitten (arching menacingly and prancing sid...
by Lilith
Fri May 17, 2019 11:43 am
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Kitty sudden change of behaviour
Replies: 22
Views: 3739

Re: Kitty sudden change of behaviour

Oh good lass and good news - sounds like she's going from strength to strength :D Some of my girls have been a bit knocked out by the op; some have been a bit knocked out and have climbed up on the mantelpiece the minute I took my eyes off them; some have taken their stitches out within 24 hours wit...
by Lilith
Thu May 16, 2019 6:13 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Kitty sudden change of behaviour
Replies: 22
Views: 3739

Re: Kitty sudden change of behaviour

Oh good, brilliant news; I was worried - hope all is plain sailing now. Fusses to her, naughty girl for scaring you :)
by Lilith
Thu May 16, 2019 1:22 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Kitty sudden change of behaviour
Replies: 22
Views: 3739

Re: Kitty sudden change of behaviour

Do you think she could be constipated? Some painkillers can cause that, and even mild constipation on top of a sore stomach can't be much fun - not that there can be much in her bowel after the op. Personally I'd give the vet a call - a decent vet, or nurse, is usually happy to help, and even if it'...
by Lilith
Wed May 15, 2019 12:12 pm
Forum: Rescue & Rehoming - General
Topic: Is it the right thing to re-home my kittens
Replies: 3
Views: 993

Re: Is it the right thing to re-home my kittens

Hi and welcome :) Oh and a fellow-Lilith too! :D I can sympathise - I dread visitors too lol. Loads of good advice already but would just like to add, I too have an aggressive cat, who joined me as a misfit adolescent and will still bite and puncture me if I do anything wrong, like stroke the wrong ...
by Lilith
Wed May 15, 2019 11:24 am
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Mia - Chapter 3
Replies: 81
Views: 19405

Re: Mia - Chapter 3

Aw, all this is so cool! Those kitties don't seem much daunted by their 'ordeal'. Little beauties!

Fusses to all four :D
by Lilith
Wed May 15, 2019 11:22 am
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Hi I'm new - not very good at technology so apologies if I've posted posted in wrong place
Replies: 27
Views: 6074

Re: Hi I'm new - not very good at technology so apologies if I've posted posted in wrong place

I find it heartbreaking that it seems ok to most people to dismiss cats as "it's only a cat" - if dogs were treated as badly there'd be a huge outcry. Hi Gill and so glad to read of Kitty's story - plenty of good advice and you're doing all the right things. I TOTALLY agree with you. I on...
by Lilith
Wed May 15, 2019 11:11 am
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Siamese genetic question
Replies: 3
Views: 657

Re: Siamese genetic question

Hi and welcome. Yes, your boy will carry the pointed gene, and if a kitten has parents who both carry the pointed gene even without showing it, then it's possible for it to be pointed - but by no means guaranteed. It's a complete gamble. I knew someone who had a lilac-pointed Siamese who got out and...
by Lilith
Sat May 11, 2019 1:36 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Mia - Chapter 3
Replies: 81
Views: 19405

Re: Mia - Chapter 3

Lol happy Caturday to you ... it has literally been a happy Cat-turd-day here as my Mouse, who is plagued with constipation and who wasn't responding to her laxative, started back on Royal Canin Fibre Plus dried a couple of days ago - and today saw a result :) I take it you'll be back home with the ...
by Lilith
Fri May 10, 2019 6:21 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Mia - Chapter 3
Replies: 81
Views: 19405

Re: Mia - Chapter 3

Ouch! Bitten by a kitten! :lol:

They look fine healthy little beasties :D
by Lilith
Fri May 10, 2019 1:01 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Mia - Chapter 3
Replies: 81
Views: 19405

Re: Mia - Chapter 3

Ha ha! :lol: Been there done that! Not so much the purple haze as the violent Violet! :D (Never mind - the one of mine who asked to come along with her brother earned the nickname of Cookie ... short for 'Cooking Fat' :o :shock: ) Well, your lives will never be the same - but I can guarantee you won...
by Lilith
Fri May 10, 2019 5:09 am
Forum: Health and Behaviour Queries, Help and Advice
Topic: Practical ways to cope with incontinent cat
Replies: 4
Views: 1084

Re: Practical ways to cope with incontinent cat

Hi and welcome :) Puppy pads come in handy; I wish I'd realised about them for an elderly forgetful boy of mine. I use unscented ones for everything now - in front of the trays, feeding mats, carrier blankets, even bedding for my python. If the vet visits I cover a table with them for the examinatio...
by Lilith
Tue May 07, 2019 8:50 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Some thoughts on letting go.
Replies: 27
Views: 5929

Re: Some thoughts on letting go.

Yes, you will be in shock at the moment - even when we know it's inevitable, that knowledge doesn't cushion the blow. I feel for you. Take care of yourself, lots of love and hugs, Lil x
by Lilith
Tue May 07, 2019 6:36 am
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Why is life so cruel and unfair ?
Replies: 9
Views: 2718

Re: Why is life so cruel and unfair ?

It is, and you think you have reached a plateau where you can cope - and then it all wells up again and overwhelms you. This is the nature of the beast, unfortunately. (Sorry if I sound cold or smug - don't mean to; when it gets to me I'm in chaos too.) I've said that about never having another cat ...
by Lilith
Tue May 07, 2019 6:22 am
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Some thoughts on letting go.
Replies: 27
Views: 5929

Re: Some thoughts on letting go.

Oh, Onion, I remember Onion. Sweet girl.

So very very sorry to hear. Will be thinking about you both today, love and hugs, Lil x
by Lilith
Wed May 01, 2019 1:44 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Should I give in ?
Replies: 19
Views: 2442

Re: Should I give in ?

Lol, first round to Lizzie!

Welcome to the tribe of bullied cat slaves :D

I do hope she shifts her roost soon though so you can enjoy proper sleep again :)
by Lilith
Sat Apr 27, 2019 8:42 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Mia - a new chapter begins
Replies: 223
Views: 27666

Re: Mia - a new chapter begins

Aww, congratulations - and roll on Happy Jasper-Day :D
by Lilith
Sat Apr 27, 2019 3:42 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Should I give in ?
Replies: 19
Views: 2442

Re: Should I give in ?

Well, she is an awkward little horror. I'd personally be inclined to let her back into the bedroom - but make it very discouraging to get on the headboard - or even remove the headboard if that's feasible? If it has to stay in place, perhaps fix a length of tinfoil or a slitted binliner or two like ...
by Lilith
Fri Apr 26, 2019 5:50 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: All wrapped up
Replies: 0
Views: 359

All wrapped up

Recently I bought several pairs of gaudy harem pants (ohhhh no I don't do grey!) And very nice too, comfortable and exotic for this ancient hippy :lol: A couple came wrapped in sheets of tissue paper. I slung one sheet down in my usual untidy way - and Molly found it. Wow. It can be crumpled. Pounce...
by Lilith
Fri Apr 26, 2019 5:21 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: A smile for the weekend
Replies: 4
Views: 808

Re: A smile for the weekend

Ohhh superb! :lol: :lol: :lol: Recently a friend told me about a 'mouse' her father's cat once left, carefully arranged, for him. There were two front feet, then a gap of several inches of nothing, then the back feet ... then the tail ... The virtual mouse perhaps? Or the low-calorie mouse? Cuisine ...
by Lilith
Fri Apr 26, 2019 7:34 am
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Losing Lucy
Replies: 3
Views: 1032

Re: Losing Lucy

Hah, another Pagan - there are quite a few of us on the forum, but as you'll know, obviously, having a faith and a belief in the afterlife doesn't prevent grief when someone leaves us. Your tribute to Lucy reminds me of my Emily (avatar) who was also feral and moved in - with 5 kittens - all gingers...
by Lilith
Thu Apr 25, 2019 3:16 pm
Forum: Health and Behaviour Queries, Help and Advice
Topic: Spayed -- 11 days after
Replies: 6
Views: 5184

Re: Spayed -- 11 days after

Aww, what a pretty lass - and what a typical 'This has been all your fault and I'm guilting you' glance.

Never mind, she'll never have to go through that again. Fusses to her :)
by Lilith
Thu Apr 25, 2019 3:09 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Mia - a new chapter begins
Replies: 223
Views: 27666

Re: Mia - a new chapter begins

My Molly has the same coat pattern, though she's ginger - close, sleek, and with what I swear is a perfect Burmese face and body type; we have some fascinating 'mongrels' around; I once knew a cat (called 'Stripe') who was the double of Mabel. So I wouldn't be surprised if Jasper turns out to be lon...